Friday, March 20, 2009

Let's Talk










Your probably saying what? That is all she does is talk...but not about other people? In a negative way...do I? I do not feel I do, but it is time for the POO to hit the fan people! (and if I have, I never mention names, I still have the right to vent when someone makes me angry; it did not stop them from slinging first without asking me to my face...) We all have the right to get mad...although my intentions of late are to release the negative and only keep my positive valve open so that life becomes what it is meant to be...full of energy for me to be who I was meant to be, and surrounded by those that compliment my nature by way of the 'Law of Attraction'...

When we get angry, and if you say you never do then the cartoon is for you, but seriously is this not what this blogging thing is all about. A venue to say what ever we need to say when we say it? The bad thing about it is that the public is able to come on our sites and read our content. Do I really care? Yes, on my 'Behind The Wheel Chef' I do, but that is because sex, body parts, bodily functions, racism, anger, crying, poo and anything else we can think of that others might find distasteful does not mix well with a pretty little family meal. Hmmm! It could (slooshing), but we will not get into that one today... If someone does leave a negative remark on your site that is mean't to be hurtful (or emails you) then leave it...others will see it and realize on their own that the person has no 'cooth', and is probably just an asshole who thinks their poo does not stink!

My point today is that this is like our diary of sorts. We write it to express our feelings about some subject matter, and if the public wants to read it then they do, if they want to comment on it, well they do...We hope in a nice mannerly way...without all the bull shit that they think we cannot see, but we do see it... If the public chooses to read something and make a comeback at the person who said it, maybe they feel guilty because they know what they said in the first place was just darn mean!!!

Get a clue public...Freedom of Speech...you can google it and read it, because its in the constitution, if you live in the United States that is...Some people feel the need to give advice to others, and feel they are 'helping' those people become better at what they might already be okay at, but my advice is 'Do not give advice if someone did not ask for it', or you might really be saying to the other person is that 'they suck' and you just told them how you really felt...How about simply asking 'Would you like my advice', and the other person has the opportunity to say 'Not really, but go ahead' (because they are too nice to tell you to F'off) and then leave it alone...

DISCLAIMER: This is not written about anyone specifically it is just in defense of a friend who was hurt recently and it makes me angry that we are suppose to be adults and some run around acting like little hurt kids on a playground. Fess up and say it to the persons face next time, and stop sending emails like a coward...

10 comments:

Misadventurous Mommy said...

First I must say that I LOVE the picture...so perfect for the occasion don't ya think?

Anyway I know exactly what you mean because once upon a time I wrote a very personal blog post and someone (whose name I won't mention because I would be afraid my girls might gang up and open a can on her) wrote me an email that offended me a lot! Instead of posting the comment so that everyone else could read that she was calling me a bad mother she decided to email me...just as hurtful, but in my opinion it's the cowardly thing to do!

I'm proud of u for sticking up for ur friend!

Debra said...

Oh, E, you could not have said it any better!

Just telling it like it is said...

You tell it sister!! that is right you can say what ever you want...
A woman that speaks her mind what is wrong with that?? Hugs

K said...

I'm not very good at being all the girl games. I'm a big believer in saying what you mean and meaning what you say.

I liked this post - made me think and the cartoon was hilarious.

HoodChick said...

The world is full of assholes, you can't shoot them so you just have to ignore them.

dash deringer said...

I don't know what happened or what the situaion was - but I agree with everything you said. I used to have that problem at the old Deringer Files on Live Spaces before it got shut down - mainly on all my politcal posts - people can say the meanest things when they are signing their words "anonymous" - and this is why my blog is rather boring - I stay away from the politics and religion and anything that might bring negative energy to my space - I don't want it, I don't needed it, and I don't have the time and energy to worry about it - who would want to... but I would tell them to "F@#* OFF"

blueviolet said...

That Maxine says it like it is, doesn't she? I love that you're supporting your friend. You rock!

Alexis AKA MOM said...

Thank you my dear I so very much appreciate this post! Your kind words and poet way made me smile thru my tears. I'm still hurt and still have to work with the person. I know I was a bigger person and post a sorry for my blog which is my personal diary that offended them. I'm still waiting to hear a sorry from them, which as we know will never happen. I'm sorry to say that the words hurt me so bad and I did my usual and ran and appologized thinking of their feelings over my own.

E you are one special lady and I'm very glad that I met you. I'm blessed to have you girls as my friends. Especially like days like yesterday.

MUAH! You have a beautiful way with words!

Girl Rants said...

this is perfectly put.
sometimes attention vampires just like to stir the "pot" so to speak.

our blog are just that OUR BLOGS.
they no likey, they no ready.

tools.

someone messed with alexis?
lemme at em'

Wunderwoman said...

I love Maxine, and you're a great friend.